Last updated: October 28, 2026
This Privacy Policy explains how Spiritt Ventures, LLC ("Spiritt Ventures," "we," "us," or "our") collects, uses, shares, and keeps information when you use the Wing mobile application and related services, including wingdatenight.com (collectively, the "Service"). Spiritt Ventures is responsible for your personal information under this policy.
Please also review our Terms of Service.
1. Information We Collect
- Account information, such as your name, email address, sign-in details, profile photo, and birthday if you add one.
- Relationship and preference details you enter, such as how long you have been together, your city or area, interests, food and activity preferences, budget, favorite past dates, love language results, and whether you have kids or pets.
- Sensitive information you choose to share, such as dietary needs, pregnancy, mobility or accessibility needs, whether you drink alcohol, cultural or religious preferences, and mood check-ins. These fields are optional. See section 4.
- Content you create, such as coach messages, Connect answers, Rapid Fire votes, photos you take or choose for Photo Hunt, saved plans, ratings, feedback, and reports.
- Location you choose. You pick a city, neighborhood, or ZIP code, and we store that area and its map coordinates. The app does not use GPS or track where you are.
- Activity in the Service, such as plans and places you save, hide, or schedule, features you use, and notification settings.
- Device and diagnostic information, such as IP address, device and browser type, app version, push notification tokens, crash reports, and performance data.
- Purchase information. Apple or our payment partners process payments. We receive your subscription status and purchase history, not your card number.
- Voice input on the website, if you use it. We send the recording for transcription and do not store the audio.
- Cookies and similar technologies on our website, used to keep you signed in, remember preferences, measure site traffic, and remember how you first arrived, using a first-party cookie (see section 7).
When the iPhone app adds a plan to your calendar, it does so on your device. We do not read or upload your calendar.
Google account and calendar data
Signing in with Google shares your name, email address, and profile picture with Wing to create and secure your account. It does not give Wing access to your Google Calendar or Google birthday. You can add your birthday yourself in your Wing profile.
The current web calendar option opens a Google Calendar draft for you to review and save. It does not give Wing access to your calendar. If you separately choose to connect Google Calendar when that option becomes available, Wing will ask for permission to create date-plan events on your primary calendar and retrieve those events to confirm they were saved. Wing will store the access and refresh tokens needed for that connection, along with event identifiers and links. Wing will not use that connection to read unrelated events or your birthday.
Wing's use and transfer of information received from Google APIs will adhere to the Google API Services User Data Policy, including the Limited Use requirements. We use this data only to provide the sign-in and calendar features you choose. We do not sell it, use it for advertising, or use it to train models. We share it only as needed to provide those features, protect security, or comply with the law.
You can remove Wing's Google access in your Google Account connections. Removing access stops future Google API requests but does not delete events already saved to your calendar. Delete those in Google Calendar. To delete data stored by Wing, delete your Wing account or contact us as described below.
2. How We Use Information
- Provide, operate, and personalize the Service, including plans, recommendations, and the coach
- Learn what you and your partner like over time, as described in section 5
- Process subscriptions and manage access to paid features
- Send account messages, reminders, and updates you can control
- Keep the Service secure, prevent abuse, and control costs
- Fix bugs, measure performance, and improve the Service
- Comply with legal obligations and enforce our terms
We do not sell your personal information, and we do not use it for targeted advertising.
3. AI Features
With your permission, Wing sends relevant profile and relationship details, your city, preferences, coach messages, Connect answers, saved plans, and feedback to Google Gemini for personalized plans and guidance. Preferences can include dietary, health, or other sensitive information you choose to provide. To find real places, we also send your planning area and plan details to Google's Maps and Search services. If you use voice transcription, Wing sends that audio to OpenAI. When you share a Photo Hunt photo, Wing sends the photo and its caption to Google Gemini for a safety check before your partner sees it, so sharing Photo Hunt photos requires your permission.
You can decline and keep using saved plans, Connect text prompts, and account settings. Shared AI recommendations require both partners' permission. Change your choice in Settings under Privacy or Help, Legal & Account, AI Processing. Withdrawal stops new requests; it cannot undo information already processed.
We use paid business access to these providers. Under their terms, Google and OpenAI do not use your information to train their models. They may keep it for a limited time to detect abuse, as their terms allow. We do not use your information to train AI models either.
AI suggestions can be wrong. Check venue details, hours, prices, and anything important before you rely on them. Wing does not use AI to make decisions about you that have legal or similarly significant effects.
4. Sensitive Information
Some details you can share with Wing are sensitive, such as health information (including pregnancy, mobility, and accessibility needs), whether you drink alcohol, religious or cultural preferences, and mood check-ins. Sharing them is optional. By adding them, you agree that we may store and use them to personalize the Service, including through the AI features above. We never use them for advertising and never sell them. Your mood check-ins are private to you and are not shown to your partner. You can edit or remove these details in the app at any time.
5. How Wing Learns Over Time
Wing gets more useful the more you use it. Answers you give directly, such as your preferences, Connect and Rapid Fire answers, love language results, and plan feedback, stay on your account until you change or delete them. Signals we infer from what you save, hide, or plan expire after 90 days so recommendations reflect your current tastes. Corrections you make to what Wing has learned are kept for up to one year. You can review and reset what Wing has learned in the app.
6. What Your Partner Can See
When you connect with a partner, you share a space in Wing. Your partner can see:
- Your name and birthday, if you add one
- Plans saved to your shared space, and Photo Hunt photos
- Your Connect answers, after your partner answers the same prompt
- Rapid Fire results once both of you have voted
- Coach insights you choose to share
Your partner cannot see your coach conversations, mood check-ins, or private preference details. Shared plans use both partners' preferences, so a plan may reflect things your partner told Wing without showing their answers to you.
7. How You Found Wing
When you sign up, we record which platform you used. On the website, we also record how your first visit arrived: the campaign tags and ad click identifiers in the link, the referring site, the page you landed on, and when it happened. We keep this in a first-party cookie until you create an account, then link it to your account. If you answer “How did you hear about Wing?”, we save your answer. The iPhone app does not collect Apple Ads attribution or use your device’s advertising identifier, and Wing does not track you across other companies’ apps or websites.
We use this only to understand which channels bring people to Wing. It stays in our own systems. We do not sell it, use it for targeted advertising, or share it with ad networks. It is deleted when you delete your account.
The website cookie is named wing_ft and expires 30 days after your first visit. Later visits do not replace that first visit or extend the expiry. We limit campaign codes and click identifiers, remove URL queries and fragments from referrers, and replace private landing paths, such as invite codes, with route templates. Raw ad click identifiers remain in this browser cookie; only sanitized campaign codes and the kind of advertising link can be linked to your account. We do not send these identifiers to advertising vendors.
8. How We Share Information
We share information only as described here:
- With service providers that run parts of the Service for us under contract, including Convex (database and hosting), Vercel (website hosting and analytics), Clerk (sign-in), RevenueCat and Apple (subscriptions), Google (Gemini, Maps, and Places), OpenAI (voice transcription), Sentry (error reporting), Resend (email), and Apple and Expo (push notifications). They may use your information only to provide services to us.
- With your partner, as described in section 6.
- For legal and safety reasons, such as to comply with law, respond to lawful requests, or protect the rights, safety, and security of people and the Service.
- In a business transfer, such as a merger, financing, or sale of assets. We will tell you before your information becomes subject to a different privacy policy.
- With your consent, such as when you send someone a share link.
9. How Long We Keep Information
We keep your account information while your account is open. Some information is deleted sooner:
- Coach messages: one year
- Usage events: 90 days
- Records of AI requests, used for reliability and cost limits: 30 days
- Inferred taste signals: 90 days (see section 5)
- Plan share links: 7 days
- Plan ideas you did not save: up to 14 days
10. Deleting Your Account
You can delete your account in Settings on the app or the website. Deletion is permanent. We delete your profile, preferences, coach conversations, mood check-ins, Connect and Rapid Fire answers, notification settings, and the other information linked to your account.
If you are connected to a partner, deleting your account also deletes your shared space, including shared plans, Connect answers, Photo Hunt photos, and Rapid Fire results, for both of you. Your partner keeps their own account, is notified, and can start fresh or connect with someone new.
After deletion, we keep only:
- A minimal record that the deletion happened, so we can confirm it and prevent errors
- Purchase and subscription records that Apple, RevenueCat, and we must keep for tax and accounting
- Copies in backups until they expire on their normal schedule
- De-identified or aggregated information that no longer identifies you (see section 11)
Deleting the app from your phone does not delete your account.
11. De-identified and Aggregated Information
We may create information that does not identify you or your partner, such as counts of how many people use a feature or which kinds of places are popular in a city. We may keep and use this information to run and improve the Service after you delete your account. We will not try to re-identify it.
12. Security
We use reasonable administrative, technical, and physical safeguards to protect information, including encryption in transit and access controls. No system is completely secure, and we cannot guarantee absolute security.
13. Your Choices and Rights
- Review and edit your profile, preferences, and what Wing has learned in the app.
- Delete your account in Settings, as described in section 10.
- Get a copy of your information by emailing us.
- Withdraw consent for AI processing in Settings, or remove sensitive details from your preferences, at any time.
- Control messages. Turn notifications on or off by type in Settings. Every non-essential email has an unsubscribe link.
Depending on where you live, you may also have the right to access, correct, delete, or receive a copy of your information, to object to or restrict certain processing, and to appeal our decision on your request. In Mexico, these include your rights of access, rectification, cancellation, and opposition (ARCO rights). To make a request, email privacy@wingdatenight.com from the email address on your account. We may need to verify your identity, and we will respond within the time required by law. We will not treat you differently for using these rights.
14. International Transfers
We and our service providers process and store information in the United States and other countries. If you use the Service from outside the United States, including from Mexico, your information is transferred to and processed in the United States, where data protection laws may differ from those where you live. We transfer it only to providers that help us run the Service, as described in section 8.
15. Children's Privacy
The Service is for adults 18 and older. We do not knowingly collect personal information from anyone under 18. If you believe someone under 18 has given us personal information, contact us and we will delete it.
16. Changes to This Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. We will post the updated policy and change the "Last updated" date. If we make a material change, we will also tell you in the app or by email before it takes effect.
17. Contact Us
For privacy questions or requests, contact privacy@wingdatenight.com.